Alan Kleymeyer

It snowed last night!

Checkout the Snow Day from 1973 on Loyola Lane. Click the picture for a slideshow of that day.

Kristen got the game Guesstures from her Grandma in Dallas for Christmas.  Besides being a fun game, it has special meaning to Jane and I.  Jane and I met at a party in Dallas and that’s the game we played that night.   I didn’t actually call Jane for a date until more than a year later!

Video from my niece’s wedding.

When I want to share a web page that has a long honkin address I go to tinurl.com and create a shorter address that redirects to the original link.  There are other services that do this.

I’ve created:

http://tinyurl.com/lttomahawks
(http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=7B4DF86AE633035C)

http://tinyurl.com/ltcheer
(http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=E79E13953BCDBF36)

http://tinyurl.com/kristenbb (Not Working)

(http://www.youtube.com/my_playlists?p=8A6C34C04F860F91)

http://tinyurl.com/garrettcristina
(http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=8AB6EB7DCFE443A1)

http://tinyurl.com/McCollumBB2010
(http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=FE1AE7F58A7CB8F3)

http://tinyurl.com/iphonespellcheck
(https://picasaweb.google.com/alankley/IPhone?feat=email#slideshow/5570003804618535074)

http://tinyurl.com/lonestargoldpride
http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=058B891D688502C1

http://tinyurl.com/maggiosrred2011
http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=CE555C4BB3D94E74

http://tinyurl.com/astrossingleafall2011
http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0CFD7B0FDAFB7DA6

http://tinyurl.com/ladycavsfall2011

http://tinyurl.com/girlstrue

I am reprinting an article I came across. The original is linked at the end of this post.
This is also posted on the Lake Travis Parents site.

Are we pushing our kids too hard?

It’s a natural instinct to push our kids to succeed. We only want the best for them, after all. But are we damaging our children by teaching them that their choices are limited to either success or failure?

Our children grow up under the crushing weight of all our hopes and dreams for them. As they master crawling, walking and talking, we plan their futures. We imagine ourselves standing gracefully on the White House lawn, in the front row at the Academy Awards, waiting in the wings in Stockholm, courtside at the NBA finals. The child who absently bangs a few notes on the piano as he passes by is nurtured with lessons, his innate talent praised. The girl who twirls joyfully in the park is signed up for ballet and gymnastics lessons the next afternoon.

All over the world, parents push their children to succeed, to be the best, to excel. And that’s fantastic, except that the reality is that most of our children will not be world-famous whatevers or the greatest fill-in-the-blanks of all time. Most of us, after all, are fairly ordinary. Oh, sure, we’re really good at something or other, and we enjoy relative success in our chosen fields, but are we world-renowned? Are we turning down endorsement opportunities or juggling our schedules to give back-to-back keynotes at conferences on different continents or inspiring unauthorized autobiographies? Are we even writing unauthorized biographies? Most of us are not.

EMBRACE ORDINARY

What’s critical is that our kids understand that even though we want the best for them, “the best” is relative. We want them to try, to dream, to reach, but we also need to ensure that they understand that normal does not necessarily mean mediocre, and that mediocre does not define their character, even if they can’t cure cancer or play in the NFL — or even make the JV team in high school.

People can be ordinary and still make a difference in the world. People can be average and still be extraordinary. And before you brush away that word disdainfully, before you discount average, consider this: Average is what you pray for during pregnancy. If you don’t believe it, just ask any parent of a child with special needs.

DREAM — AND DO

Dreams matter. Of course they matter. Of course we want greatness for our children. But we don’t want them to be so paralyzed by the thought of greatness that they fail to do anything meaningful with their lives. Life, in general, is not an all-or-nothing proposition. Our children deserve the chance to experiment, to dabble, to be free to aspire to normalcy. To do, without worrying about success or failure. To do. To be.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

It’s not, “I’ll love you even if you can’t be the best or no matter what you do.” It’s, “I love you.” That intrinsic, essential, fundamental thing that makes your son your son is why you love him. Unconditional love means you don’t put conditions on it. It sounds obvious, but it’s something that’s easy to forget.

Hopes and dreams are a good thing. They’re an important part of parenting. But an equally important part is to remind yourself — and your child — that those hopes and dreams are there to inspire, not to crush. The only weight your child should feel on his shoulders is his head held high with pride in who he is now, at this moment.

Here is a link to the original article posted on SheKnows.com and written by Abbi Perets:
Are we pushing our kids too hard? Why Average Should Be The New Excellent.

I’ve recently spoken to several parents about their kids school schedule because we were wanting to make some adjustments to Cassidy’s.  It helps to know the experience of other parents with kids in LTISD, especially if they have older kids!   I got some great insights and information from friends which motivated me to setup a blog to help us share our experiences and offer advice.  Lake Travis Parents is now live and I invite everyone to visit, subscribe to it (via RSS) and to register so that you can be a part of the discussion.  You don’t even HAVE to be a Lake Travis parent!  Registration is not required to post comments.  Click here to check it out.

Played InkLink with my kids last night.  Still one of the best free online games EVER.  There is not a whole lot of activity, which is just fine with us because we are happy to have a private room to play in.  You can find it at shockwave.com.  It’s basically online Pictionary